Peer Pressure: How to overcome

Peer pressure is one of the leading troubles in a teen's life, as well as some adults. It is the way your peers get you to do something you don't want to do. For instance, "Dude! No one does these blogs! Just don't do 'em, it's not like anything's gonna happen, nobody does 'em! Dr. Boyd can't pick on EVERYONE!" Yes, I've thought it. Peer pressure happens to all of us. Peer pressure is how I got involved in marijuana (see the addiction post) which I can't say was my best decision. My friends were all telling me how great it was, so I tried it. One of the worst mistakes I've ever made. These little tips have helped me, so I'll pass them on to you so you too can overcome the hell that is peer pressure.

• Yes, it can be hard to be the only one to say no, but you can. Think about your own true feelings. I know, it can be hard in the moment with your brain racing, trying to think about what not to do, but all your friends saying do it, but give it a try next time you're faced by peer pressure.


• Pick your friends wisely. When your faced by peer pressure, a lot of power can be taken out of that pressure when even only 1 other person says no. Especially when that person is willing to back you up when you say no as well.


• Stay away from the people you even expect to try to pressure you. Usually they are going to. If you stay away, it's harder for them to notice you, because they're probably pre-occupied by something else, such as cigarettes, drugs, or alcohol.


• If you're facing it alone, try to say no. If not, it happens. If you do give in, just try to talk to a trust worthy friend, a parent, school counselor, etc. Talking helps.